Sunday, December 28, 2008

Seven Years!

Happy Anniversary, Matt!

We have been married seven years today. It's been a moment, and it's been a lifetime. I love you Matt! I can't imagine anyone else who would make me happier than you do. You are an amazing person, an amazing father and my best friend. And I can't wait until it's been a hundred and seven years!

A few pictures of our blessings over the last seven years.

Joe eighteen months

Emily, two days old

Mary, two days old, with Joe, four years

Mary, 3 months

Emily, two years old

Another Christmas

We had a wonderful - and quiet - Christmas this year. On Christmas Eve we had a wonderful ham dinner and then we sung carols with the kids and Matt read the Christmas story. The whole day just had a peaceful, happy feeling about it. It was so nice to be able to just spend time with the family.

On Christmas morning, we woke up at around seven and opened presents. Mary had been up for all but about four hours during the night (perfect timing there, chica!!), so Matt and I were more than a little bleary-eyed. Mary got a little car that she rides in and someone pushes. When she came down the stairs, she walked right over to it and sat inside it for more of the rest of Christmas morning. Emily got a little scooter. Joe got a special letter from Santa and a much coveted "Santa Buck" which he redeemed at the store the next day for a Transformer toy that he is very happy with. (Yes, some lame-o parents couldn't get it together in time). His favorite thing was the "dust from Santa's workshop" that was in the envelope (that looks curiously like gold glitter).

After lunch we went to a park to play for a little while (60 degrees on Christmas Day - what is that about? Matt loves that, though. I think I would have rather been in the blizzard in Utah, but, it was nice to get out and play). The rest of the day was leisurely and nice. It was simple and great.

I love the time we get to take out and remember the Savior and the hope and joy we have because he was born and lived to fulfil His divine purpose of coming to the earth. It's sad to see this time of year go, but I feel renewed and filled with a fresh resolve to go forward and make this new year even better. It is so fitting that Christmas comes right before the New Year. We can stop and remember and refocus and then we get to start over. What a blessing!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Early Christmas Present

Joe went to the doctor this afternoon and got his cast removed!!! Yay for Joe!
Before
The nurse and the saw
The appendage is removed and the stinky foot is revealed! (hooray for simplified baths!!)
The girls were more freaked out than Joe. Mary was crying and Emily was really nervous. But it all turned out alright in the end. We are all way excited to be done with this! Joe kept commenting on how small his foot was. He asked if his cast smashed his leg. I explained about the muscles and all of that, but I thought that was funny that he thought the cast smashed his leg. He was nervous to walk on his foot until we had been home for about ten minutes, but now he's running around like normal. Now I have to start reminding him to not run and jump on it (he's got two weeks before he can have the go-ahead - He's a six year old boy! Like that's going to happen! Sheesh!)
Merry Christmas early, Joe!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Locks of Love

Almost six months ago, I decided to donate to Locks of Love. I just wanted to grow it out a little more so that it wasn't quite as short when I finally did cut it. On Thursday, I finally took the plunge. I am SOOOO excited to have short hair again! I love long hair, but I just don't fix it enough. I end up keeping it in a ponytail 99% of the time. And now that it's short, it is a lot curlier and it actually takes me less time to do it curly than it took me to put it in a ponytail when it was long. Hurray for easy and not in a ponytail! I cut off 11 inches.




Before


(I figured there's such a subtle difference I needed labels!)





After - and ten lbs lighter!!
(Joe took the after pictures)



Namaste

I was reading a book recently that said that her friends from India greet one another by bringing their hands together, bowing slightly and saying "Namaste". Roughly translated, "Namaste" means "I honor the Deity within you." I'm making the jump that the author's information is correct, but I found that so profound. I really want to get to the point where I recognize the divinity in every person I meet and treat them accordingly. I have pondered this often over the last week or two, but, alas, once I leave that ivory tower, I slip back into crazy self-absorbed Cathy. I hope to one day be able to focus and act the way I really want to. I have met people who are so gifted at this, so I know it's possible. I just need to watch them and do what they do. And I suppose praying for charity would probably help too! Anyway. Thanks for letting me share my musings.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

FYI

Apparently, Emily's name has been changed to Max and mine has been changed to Charlie - or Jail (she keeps changing her mind on that one). Thought you'd want to make a note of the change.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Inventive Ways of Telling the Truth

Whenever two children are off together and suddenly one of them starts crying, you automatically can deduce what took place. Tonight, Joe came downstairs crying holding his head. He and Emily had been playing upstairs together. Joe let us know that Emily had thrown one of the toy blocks at his head. Like a typical parent we made sure there was no lasting damage then called Emily over. This is where the difficulty of parenthood comes in (no, not just how to discipline children, but keeping a straight face while doing it).

Matt: Emily, did you throw a block at Joe

Emily: No

Matt: Did you throw a block at all?

Emily: No

Matt: Did a block hit Joe in the head?

Emily: No

Matt: Why is Joe crying then?

Emily (completely straight faced and without even a pause): Because he doesn't like it when I throw things at him.

After a minute of having to look out the window, wipe our mouths, and hide under the blanket we were able to send her to time out.

Student Pick-up Derby

It's a well documented fact that if you give even the most mild mannered individual four wheels and car keys they undergo an alarming and immediate transformation. But, call me naive, I thought that even that transformation had its exceptions.

Since Joe broke his leg, I haven't been able to walk to pick him up from school, so I have become a regular in the "car rider line". For those who are blissfully ignorant, after school, if you pick up your child as opposed to having them ride the bus, you have to arrive obscenely early in order to actually be able to see the school from your spot in the line of cars occupied by other eagerly waiting parents and caregivers. When the children are finally released from school, they file into the gym and sit in lines and wait. Then school administrators dismiss one or two children at a time as their parents get to the front of the car rider line. It's amazing how much safety precautions have changed since I went to school. (insert favorite "when I was a kid..." story here). Anyway. This all seems pretty straight forward, right? You get there, wait your turn, pick up your child, and leave. Here's where the crazy transformation comes in. I have seen parents in their own vehicles of destruction dart around two or three cars as the line is moving forward in order to get a closer place in line. I have seen others cutting off cars to get out of the parking lot first. I have seen cars tearing past the line going at least fifteen miles an hour (remember this is a parking lot where children - including pre-k - are running around getting into cars etc). It has just absolutely amazed me. Is five minutes of your time really worth causing bad feelings at best and killing a child at worst? I think sometimes we adults need to go back to school and learn how to take turns, and share, and speak nicely to each other. It certainly couldn't hurt!

Cute Mary Pictures

Good morning, Mary!
"Let me help you with that"

If looks could kill!




Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Quite a Fantasy World

The other morning, Matt asked Emily what she dreamed about. She said "Princesses." Like she does every morning. Matt asked if she had any animals. She said yes and started to list them. Matt asked what their names were, and she didn't even miss a beat, but listed them all off. My favorite was her giraffe named Fernander Spankleton. She said this all happened in the kingdom of Matriby.

A Visit From Stephanni Myers

Not that Stephanni Myers - the one that WE love.

Matt's mom came to visit this last week and we had so much fun! The kids were sad the whole way home from the airport. In the airport, Emily didn't really say goodbye, and she was just kind of not paying attention, but when we went out to the parking lot, she said "Where's grandma?" Finally, by the time we left the airport and hit the freeway, she started to understand that Grandma was really gone. This morning she said "Grandma needs to leave Utah. I don't like Utah." We miss you already, grandma Myers!
Joe's birthday party


"Don't even think about taking my picture!"

Happy Birthday to me! Yesterday

I had a WONDERFUL birthday this year. Matt threw me a surprise party on Saturday, and I actually was surprised. I had a little inkling that he was doing something, but I had NO idea that he was doing it on Saturday. Friends came over and visited and played games, and it was so fun to see them. And, he got me an elliptical! I'm so excited, because I can't use a treadmill (because of my knees), so that's one of the only kinds of exercise equipment I can use. It's going to be so great for the post-baby workouts!! I was worried about walking or jogging with all the little ones, but this solves the problem. Matt's amazing!! We spent yesterday with Matt's wonderful mother who came to stay with us this week, and then took her to the airport. Thank you for visiting Grandma Myers!!

On Joe's birthday, he said the morning family prayer, and he prayed that this year he would make good choices since he's six. I think that is a perfect thing to be thinking about when looking over the coming year. I definitely hope I make good - and better - choices this next year. I hope I'm further along in the direction I would like to be rather than just kind of treading water. I hope I can look back on this coming year and say "Wow! I really accomplished a lot, and it was a great year."

Monday, December 8, 2008

Big 6

Happy Birthday, Joe!
We are so excited to have you in our family!

Today in the life of Joe.
He still has his cast on from breaking his leg.
He loves the draw and cut things out.
He loves school and his teacher.
His best friend is Denae.
He loves to run.
His favorite color is blue.
His favorite movie is the Justice League.
His favorite superhero is Superman.
His favorite food is pizza or creamed-egg on toast.
His favorite thing to do is "kick dad's trash"

We love you Joe!!

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Grandma!

Grandma Meirs is coming today! The kids - especially Joe - can't even wait. All week when Joe has said the family prayer, he asks that she'll drive safely and then that she'll fly safely and then that she'll drive from the airport to our house safely. I guess he wants to cover all of the bases. It'll be so fun to have her visit!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Life in Real Time

What do migraines and children have in common?

Neither one cares about your "To do" list.

But, at least one has the cuteness factor going for it.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Yay!!

So, at least one person caught it from the video. We are going to have another baby!! I'm due June 16th and we can't wait! Well. We can wait, but we are really really excited!



Cute comments from the kids about the baby:



I asked Mary if she's excited to have a brother. She responded by putting her hand over her mouth and blowing a raspberry. Then I asked if she wanted a sister and she got a big grin on her face.



Emily asked if I could get her a brother. I told her I'd work on it.

Emily said that when she has a baby in her tummy she is going to have fun, and she's going to name her "Nursery Contessa".

Joe asked what we were going to call the baby, and we told him that we didn't know yet because we didn't know if it was going to be a boy or a girl. He got a completely amazed look on his face and said "I want it to be a boy!" I guess it had never occurred to him that that was an option.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Mary's one note symphony

Mary has cemented her vocabulary.

(again with the editing. The first 45-60 seconds are about all you need to watch, then it's more of the same for familial type people to obsess over)

PS There's a little nugget of news embedded in one of the questions in the video. See if you can pick it out.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

My little reading girl

My internet/blogger/my computer finally uploaded a video! Yay! For some reason it wouldn't upload the edited video - but I'll take what I can get! So, this video is a little long and the sound at the beginning in not proportioned right, so just watch for as long as you want, though the last minute is really the cute part. This is more of a parental/grandparent indulgence anyway. I love my cute Mary. She is LOVING reading lately.

PS I intentionally filmed her feet for a little while because she was doing funny things with them. I'm not COMPLETEly incompetent with the video camera - just close.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Emily's new fascination has been to unload the game closet, scatter the pieces of every game - especially Monopoly and Life - around the entire second floor and then run off to another activity. As utterly enjoyable as I'm sure that is for everyone involved, yesterday I told her that she isn't even to touch the game closet door. If she wants to play a game, she has to come get me. So, this morning, while we were putting in the turkey, Emily once again got into the game closet and spread the pieces all over five counties. When Matt saw it, he told her that she was told not to touch the games and she had to go sit on the couch in time out. She replied, in her sweetest little voice, "But, Dad, I'm just a small girl." Nice try, sweetie. That was one of those hide-your-face-so-she-can't-see-you-smile moments.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

The Eternal Nature of Laundry

This morning I have again been presented with the eternal nature of laundry. I found myself thinking the oft repeated refrain (in my house at least). "I SWEAR I just did laundry. How can you not have any clean underwear?" Sigh.

ALWAYS right?

Last night at dinner, I told Joe we were having Turtle cake for dinner. He asked why it was called "turtle" cake and I explained that when a dessert has caramel and chocolate that's what it's usually called. Matt broke in and said that it's actually because they get a paste from turtles and whip it up and mix it with sugar. Joe said, "No, mom's right!" Then I couldn't resist being a smartie pants and said "I'm always right." Matt agreed. About a minute later, Joe covered his cup and said "Is there water in my cup? You can't look." I said, "Yes," not knowing what game we were playing now. He said "You WERE right!" Then he drank some and did it again. I said that it was empty and he said, "Nope, you were wrong!" At least we established that fact quickly and could move on. Matt was quick to point out that I was right about the important stuff. It's interesting that he's getting into the stage where his parents aren't necessarily infallible and he has to investigate himself.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Snow Day!!

I awoke to a wonderful outcry this morning. "It snowed last night!!" I love snow and I miss it terribly. Though the snow has almost completely melted away by now, it was such a wonderful sight this morning! The kids had a lot of fun, and I think they might be clairvoyant. Yesterday, we were driving around town and suddenly Emily cried "It's going to snow!" Joe soon joined in the outcry. I knew nothing about a snow forcast, and it was pretty much blue sky and white clouds. But, they knew.






Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Princess Mary

Yesterday, I was cleaning up downstairs and Mary picked up Emily's Cinderella dress. She held it up and started smiling. I took it and as soon as she figured out I was putting it on her she started squealing. It had never occurred to me that she would want to put on dress up clothes - she is very hands off don't bug her unless you absolutely have to, and even then it's not okay. But she let me fuss with her to get the dress on, then she started spinning, albeit slowly, and fluffing her skirt. So cute! Emily was in the bathroom during this entire episode, and I watched with trepidation for the door to open. After all, this was HER territory. But, I seriously underestimated my Emily. Mary was right by the bathroom door when Emily came out and as soon as she saw her she said "Mary! You're so pretty! Mom, look at Mary!" She clapped her hands and danced around with her - well, for 30 seconds until Mary didn't want her hands messed with anymore.


Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed

I just watched Ben Stein's documentary Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed about the fight between Darwinism and Intelligent Design. It started out fairly entertaining, and I enjoyed the interviews, but as the documentary progressed it became increasingly thought provoking and serious. I have obvious views concerning the creation of humankind and life in general, but I really appreciated the exploration of Darwinism and ID. I think it is an important film for anyone to see who has a stock in our education system. What I found particularly important was the section on the ramifications of Darwinism and more importantly the elimination of ethics and moral truths. The film obviously had an agenda and I fully expect that it did nothing to convince any Darwinists of the possibility of ID (in fact it probably did much the opposite) but if it wakes others up to the state of affairs in the science class, it is good. I don't think that we need to teach religion in science class. There's plenty to be learned in science, but we also shouldn't teach a theory that is not even two hundred years old without allowing the possibility that there's another explanation. I highly recommend the documentary to anyone concerned with our education system.

Joe the Crutches King

Joe is doing really well. He's getting the hang of his crutches, and even makes it around without them sometimes - No, he's not walking on his leg yet, but he does a kind of one-legged shuffle. I think he's finally tired enough of having to wait for someone to help him with something. Two weeks down, four to go!!

The Chocolate Thief

Honestly! You turn your back for five minutes!

My favorite is her defiant little smile. "You know there's nothing you can do it about now, Mom."


Monday, November 17, 2008

Poor Government Choices - by Matt

The Government has enacted several laws recently with the purpose of stimulating the economy, well, at least some of the things they have done have been to stimulate the economy a lot of it has just been to appease the masses and look good before the election (and apparently the Democrats did a better job of fooling everyone).

“Take, for example, the extension of unemployment benefits enacted in June. Normally, jobless benefits are available for 26 weeks. The extension, which will last temporarily through early next year, added another 13 weeks. Following this, between June and October – in only four months – the unemployment rate has risen from 5.5% to 6.5%, a full percentage point.

"What’s odd about the jump in the jobless rate is that it has been accompanied by an unusual increase in the number of people who say they are looking for work. Normally, when the unemployment rate leaps upward we see a decline in the share of the population either working or looking for work (what economists call the participation rate). Not this time.

"In order to receive unemployment benefits, a person must be looking for work, so the extension of benefits is artificially coaxing many people who would no longer be in the workforce at all to say they are still looking for work, just so they can continue to collect benefits. The unintended consequence is that the unemployment rate is boosted faster and further than normal in a recession, making it more likely that policymakers further extend benefits, boosting the deficit and pushing up future tax payments.” - Brian Wesbury

What’s the saying? “Give a man a fish and he’ll eat for a day, give a man half a fish for the next 39 weeks and he won’t go find work because he doesn’t really need it.” While I totally understand the arguments against these points: hard economy and people actually are looking for work and not just pretending because they really do need their jobs, unemployment can’t keep you alive so why would anyone want to stay on it longer, etc. I just don’t think that it accounts for the huge increase in ongoing unemployment claims, especially when I have talked to several people who work at or own Temp agencies and they say they are having a hard time filling the jobs they have available. Many companies have been firing employees and then hiring in temps since they don’t have to pay for their health insurance.

On another blog that I just started I will be placing the articles I write for our clients. Here is a link to my synopsis of the other government programs, though the ones mentioned have a better chance of doing something positive to the economy in the near future.

My biggest concern is that government is now, in an effort to get something done that looks good (which seems to be the only goal of government of late: Look good not necessarily do good), trying to pass further “stimulus” when it might not be necessary and will only serve to further our debt and the dependency from many Americans. What really bothers me is that no one seems to think that the government giving out more money is a bad thing. At first it sounds nice to get more money from the government because, hey, it is our money right? Not in this case. Our money has already been spent. These stimulus acts are being paid for by borrowing.

While I am open to getting money from just about anybody, I am not willing to take that money if there is some undisclosed pay back necessary.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Parenthood is a hurricane

We went to Stake Conference this morning. We knew it was going to be bad when we pulled out our last resort - a snack - fifteen minutes into the two hour meeting! It was a full on coordinated assault. Emily played the bathroom and drink cards until we told her no, then she started fussing and crying. Mary - well - Mary is 15 1/2 months. I think that's all that needs to be said there. And Joe, who is usually great during church was just...not. I caught maybe two phrases by one of the speakers and that was it. And, I was not being patient. I snapped at Emily when she was being uncooperative, and I was just done.

And then we came home.

To this.





This, to me, is a tender mercy of the Lord. I needed to see the amazing, wonderful children that I'm not screwing up too badly.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

My Kids Make Me Laugh!

It has been so fun to watch Mary's personality develop. She almost always has this conspiratorial smile on her face like she just made the most hilarious joke or that the two of you are in on a private joke. She looks like she's about to burst out laughing at any moment. She is by far the quirkiest of the kids - which is really saying something - and is in her own little world a lot of the time. You can just tell that she has her own unique way of viewing the world and facing its challenges. She just makes me laugh.


The infamous monkey toes.
Matt always makes fun of me for my toes. When I'm cleaning up I always pick things up with my feet (especially when I'm carrying a baby) rather than bend over to pick it up. The kids have the same tendency. Here is Mary about to pick something up with her toes.

Joe dressed up like Indiana Jones (complete with blue boulder). Emily - I think - is a flower.

This afternoon, we heard Mary start screaming in the play room. We met her at the top of the stairs. Matt picked her up, and went looking for Emily, who was hiding under the blankets on her bed.

Matt - Emily, what happened to Mary?

Emily - She bammed her head.

Matt - On what?

Emily - (pulling out a frisbee she had hidden in the blankets with her) On this.

Matt - Emily, did YOU hit Mary with the frisbee?

Emily - Yeah.

Monday, November 10, 2008

sigh...

I don't have much to report - as evidenced by my lack of blogging this week. Joe went back to school today. He fell down once, but he was alright. I had a doctor's appointment, so a friend watched the girls. After the appointment I ate lunch with Matt. It was almost like a real date! It was great! I am tired! I'm glad Joe is home from school and we can just hang out at home. Well, that's about all I've got. Disjointed pointless rambling at its best!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Now What?

It seems weird that the election is over. After two years of following the campaigns and obsessing, it's time to move forward. I think that's the hardest part of coming to the end of a preparation period. It's easy to get stuck in that mode and look onto the next thing to obsess over and prepare for. But, it's time to work. I hope that all the leaders who were elected last night are ready for it. I hope that we have a reprieve from campaigning and political posturing and that they just roll up their sleeves, take the good of the American people honestly in their hearts and try to accomplish what needs to be accomplished. I think I can handle the sweeping losses if our country is able to move forward and the leaders elect forget about planning for their political careers and start living them.

I must say that I am relieved that the election was called cleanly to Obama. We really needed it to be straight forward and I'm glad it was.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Joe Update

We took Joe to the Orthopedic Specialist this morning. Joe was able to get a walking cast on, so as soon as the pain lessens enough, he will be able to walk around without crutches. Hooray!! He has, of course, been flipping out every time we move him and when the doctor looked at him we found out an additional reason for it. In the ER, they didn't put the splint high enough, so it hasn't been supporting the break at all. Poor baby!! But, it is all set now. We have to take him in next week to check it out, but other than that, we're in for the six week haul!

Monday, November 3, 2008

My Poor Joe!

Yesterday, right before we were supposed to leave for church, Joe was jumping around our bed. He jumped off, and landed wrong. We heard a pop and knew it wasn't good. We tried to calm him down and keep him from going into shock, then I got the girls and took them to church while Matt took Joe to the emergency room. Well, three hours later, they got x-rays that showed he had broken his leg. The doctor put a splint on and gave him some medication. I'm calling his pediatrician this morning to see what else needs to be done.
He didn't sleep well last night because it was hurting. It was so weird to see his medication glazed eyes. I've never seen that before in him. I SO don't like medication. Hopefully he will start feeling better soon!

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Does anyone have a spoon?

So, I've had a migraine of varying degrees of severity since Thursday. I'm finally at the stage where my head just feels like it's wrapped in foam - which is a welcome relief after the horrible stabbing and not being able to see this morning. I can't really get up and do anything or my head starts throbbing, but I have been laying there for 3 hours and I can't take it anymore! So, here I am.

Matt read this description on a health blog once, and it just cracks me up. (It's not a direct quote, so I won't put it into quotation marks). You know it's a migraine when it seems perfectly reasonable to jab a spoon through your eye socket and spin it around until you've scooped out the offending part of your brain. All of you migraine sufferers out there are probably nodding right now. But, at least I can see now with out blind spots and squiggly lines of light.

Halloween Part 2







Halloween Dance Class

One of the mom's of a girl Emily's age organized a one time dance class to see if we would be interested in organizing a class. The teacher was GREAT! She was so good with all of the little girls. Emily is so funny. She usually doesn't have a hard time with new situations, but she wouldn't go out and dance for the first fifteen minutes. She just sat right next to me watching. When she finally did go out, she had a wonderful time. She was also very excited to wear her Cinderella dress and "glass" slippers (even though she didn't wear them when she was dancing).















Matt is wonderful!

I love my husband! He surprised me with these roses on Wednesday.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Halloween!

We carved pumpkins last night. We had a lot of fun.
When Joe reached into his pumpkin to get the guts out, he said "It's slimy! It's disgusting! This is a dream come true!"
My complete ragamuffin Mary

Emily wanted her pumpkin to have "pretty girl eyes" a "cute" nose a "pretty mouth" and "goofy"ears. She also wanted it to have a cup by the mouth, too (?).